Thanks Fitz, Secro and Finnaros for your support. We need to communicate more, stay in touch using these forums and branch our connections to other players so we can learn and share ideas.
The other night i joined a relatively experienced group for an Orthanc raid. Most of these players knew each other pretty damn well ingame. To my disappointment, there were too many clash of opinions on the game strategy, some people did not follow the leader's orders, hence we wiped a few times. I also believe that the burden was on the leader(s) and the main tanks. Once their morale goes down, that's it - GAME OVER! The group could have showed more support for the leader by following correct instructions, and likewise for the leader, to show more compassion for the group. Being too harsh, or mean (patronising) doesn't get us anywhere.
My intention of starting our own kin raid is to build our knowledge and experiment on these particular raids. Yes, we will fail a dozen times, but without failure, one does not know how to improve. So to cap it off....
....I think we need to speak up, voice your thoughts, share our ideas and make the game worthwhile (and worth the investment $$$
Anyway, that's me for today.